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9 Seriously Good Beaches To Visit In The UK

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Oh, we do like to be beside the seaside. Us Brits, we really do. But why are we jetting off elsewhere when we’ve got perfectly good — scrap that — seriously beautiful beaches right here? Hello, we’re an island! Coastline is something we have plenty of, and with that, lots of beachfronts and seaside towns too. So from the sandy ones to the pebbly ones, the ones with regal piers, perfect fish and chips, and even those with really not much at all, click on for our pick of the UK’s best beach towns.

Abersoch, Wales

Once a fishing port, Abersoch, up on the south coast of the Llŷn Peninsula is now one of Wales’ most popular seaside resorts. And no wonder, the main beach is wild and beautiful, with powdery shores, good water conditions for swimming, and the cutest row of beach huts. There’s also no shortage of opportunities to try your hand at jet-skiing, wakeboarding, windsurfing and the like if you feel that way inclined...

Where to stay: Glamp! Sure, there are hotels but why not embrace something a little different? Spend the night in a Hobbit, a 16-foot wooden pod with heating, lighting, comfy beds and breathtaking views.

www.goglamping.net

Botany Bay

Serene and tranquil, Botany Bay is iconic with its white cliffs, powdery sands and impressive chalk stacks. Take a towel and while away a sunny afternoon on the sand, before taking a dip and reliving your childhood exploring the rockpools (finding crabs never gets old, right?) There’s not so much going on around the bay itself, so enjoy taking things at 2mph with a few drinks and an early night. Otherwise, Margate is only a 10 minute drive away.

Where to stay: Options are somewhat limited around the bay itself, but there’s Botany Bay Hotel which, though not the trendiest hotel on the planet, is a breezy three minute walk from the beach.

www.botanybayhotel.co.uk

Photo: Courtesy of Visithanet.

Penzance

Stealing the crowns from both St Ives and Padstow, it’s all about Penzance this year. Along with the beautiful coastline and swimming opportunities, there’s The Lido, which originally opened in the ‘30s, was damaged in the 2013 storms, and reopened this spring. Then, there’s the food scene and the art. Tremenheere Sculpture Garden is the perfect spot to escape for a few hours of peace and quiet, before dining at one of Penzance's first-class restaurants — be it Bruce Rennie’s restaurant The Shore, or the Michelin-starred chef Ben Tunnicliffe’s new kitchen at The Tolcarne Inn.

Where to stay: Chapel House is a light and luxurious boutique hotel with six spacious double rooms, each with oak beds, sea views, and either roll top baths or rainfall showers.

www.chapelhousepz.co.uk

Photo: via @jubilee_pool.

Bude

Simple and serene, Bude offers some of the UK’s prettiest scenery, down on the Cornish coast. The clear azure seas of Summerleaze Beach could be mistaken for those of Croatia, but if you’re not feeling the mermaid vibes, there’s the saltwater lido to take a dip in instead. The windswept coast remains pretty untouched so don’t go expecting fairgrounds and slot machines. It’s a seaside escape — one that will blow away all the cobwebs.

Where to stay: If you’re up for basic, check out Atlantic Surf Pods, a set of eco-friendly and semi-off-grid cabins just a mile away from the beach. Otherwise, The Beach at Bude is a great restaurant with luxury rooms.

www.thebeachatbude.co.uk

Photo: Courtesy of Glebe House Cottages.

Margate

The UK destination of the minute, is there anyone who isn’t Instagramming Margate right now? Chances are half of your friends have moved to the kitsch seaside town that’s fast becoming “Little London” but regardless, it’s worth the trip for the old-school fun at Dreamland, the art (Turner Contemporary is excellent), the antique stores, and the burgeoning food scene — Xiringuito is the best of the best.

Where to stay: It’s just a matter of time before all the trendiest boutique hotels set up camp in Margate. ‘Til then, The Reading Rooms is the most charming, intimate B&B you could wish for, with just three raw yet luxurious rooms.

www.thereadingroomsmargate.co.uk

Photo: Courtesy of Xiringuito Margate.

Torquay

As soon as the sun shines, you’ll quickly forget you’re in England when you’re in Torquay. Its palm trees, shiny yachts and plush restaurants are more on a level with Cannes. Okay, okay, it’s not quite that fancy, but it’s a pretty sweet spot for a weekend break, with over 20 beaches in reach. Get your cozzie…

Where to stay: There’s the Grand Torquay hotel but it’s perhaps a little dated for some. Instead, go self-catered. There’s no shortage of apartments and cottages, ranging from quaint and charming, to more contemporary. Take a peek on www.holidaylettings.co.uk/torquay

Photo: Courtesy of Bike Around Britain.

Aberaeron, Wales

Another Welsh gem, Aberaeron is a postcard-pretty port town, slightly further down the coast, between Aberystwyth and Cardigan. An Instagrammer’s dream, boats scatter the quay, set against colourful Georgian style houses. Though there isn’t a sandy beach right in the town (the closest is New Quay, just four miles away), there’s the harbour to explore, countryside to get lost in, and plentiful excellent restaurants to make the most of – hit up The Hungry Trout for the freshest, tastiest seafood. Don’t miss Llanerchaeron either, a National Trust mansion with pretty gardens and an abandoned railway track.

Where to stay: Harbourmaster Hotel is a luxurious beachy bolthole, with slick, colour-popping interiors, sea-view rooms with metal roll top bathtubs and wrought-iron beds, and a laid back atmosphere. It's the obvious choice in the area.

www.mrandmrssmith.com

Photo: Courtesy of Discover Ceredigion.

Salcombe

Surrounded by sandy beaches and rugged cliffs, Salcombe in Devon is pretty damn heavenly. The estuary is known for its sublime scenery and secluded coves so a visit ain’t complete without a boat trip on the water. The other highlight? The food. Spend an afternoon wandering through the boutiques in the lanes, before stopping for Devonshire scones at afternoon tea, then fresh, delicious seafood for dinner. Can’t go wrong, right?

Where to stay: For first class luxury, it’s all about the Salcombe Harbour Hotel. Prime location, private cinema, mega spa, and more; it’s a no brainer.

www.salcombe-harbour-hotel.co.uk

Photo: Courtesy of Salcombe Harbour Hotel.

Brighton

One of the UK’s most loved seaside destinations and the obvious choice for Londoners being just an hour’s train ride from Victoria Station, Brighton is perfect for a day trip or leisurely weekend. There’s the beachfront and Brighton Pier to enjoy, plus all the fairground rides. And after you’ve braved a dip in the sea, there’s the Instagram-baiting Brighton Pavilion to admire.

Where to stay: Artist Residence is one of Brighton’s original boutique hotels and it remains one of the coolest places to stay. There’s no way you can’t fall in love with each of the individually decorated bedrooms.

www.artistresidencebrighton.co.uk

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Films To Inspire Your Summer Style:Vicky Cristina Barcelona

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As part of our summer style series, where we get inspired by stars from the silver screen, we'll be looking back over some of our favourite movies and their heroines, in search of timeless holiday icons. We've already poured over Gwyenth Paltrow as the ill-fated but fortunately dressed Marge in The Talented Mr Ripley, and this week we're asking you to travel back with us to 2008, the year of Woody Allen's Vicky Cristina Barcelona.

Not since Diane Keaton in 1977's Annie Hall has one of Allen's films really spawned a style icon of such merit – who could forget those spectacles or that waistcoat? That is until Penelope Cruz came along as the fiery María Elena, for which she bagged the Oscar for Best Actress In A Supporting Role.

Allen, whose films are largely set in hot, sultry locations, or at least Americans in holidays scenarios, is largely known for his penchant towards traditional, if somewhat normcore wardrobe preferences; think loafers and slacks in Dad-friendly hues and not much else (see Owen Wilson in Midnight In Paris). Penelope's torrent of a performance as Javier Bardem's (Juan Antonio) unstable and insatiable ex-wife (they are of course married in real life) brings with it an equally riotous wardrobe, largely consisting of too much eye makeup, Bardot-hair, nighties as dresses and sexed-up cheesecloth (is that an oxymoron?).

Not only does Penelope steal the film, she transforms a rather mediocre movie into something worth watching if only to to marvel at her marvellous moods and devilish attire.

See what we meant about the hair? Her mod/Bardot do deserves its own Tumblr and that's a smokey side-eye to kill. We're into using wine glasses as accessories on holiday too, and this one sets off her broderie anglaise dress.

Photo: c.Weinstein/Everett/REX/Shutterstock.

Her stance, her poise, her eye contact. Whoever said great things come in small packages clearly knew their own Maria Elena. We love how this potentially girlie, summer dress with split-sleeves, has been made over in black to give Maria Elena's tempestuous character a fitting sartorial realisation.

Photo: c.Weinstein/Everett/REX/Shutterstock.

Only Penelope could make a squashed pork-pie hat look remotely cool. We like the Victorian pauper oddness of a hat like this plonked on top of a ferocious minx.

Photo: c.Weinstein/Everett/REX/Shutterstock.

Ahhhh... the lingerie as daywear and the cig as jewellery. This is what true sex appeal looks like, no?

Photo: c.Weinstein/Everett/REX/Shutterstock.

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Gisele Sets A Record, Steals The Show At The Olympics Opening Ceremony

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The Olympics haven't exactly enjoyed an auspicious start. People have arrived in Rio to find the village unfinished, the crime rate astronomical, and the water unsafe to swim in. Of course, Rio isn’t alone in that regard.

But the Opening Ceremony is a time to forget all that and focus on the positive. While it wasn’t as starry as the London opening festivities, the Brazilian ceremony at the Maracanã in Rio de Janeiro was unique in its scope and ambition. The goal was to show the history of Brazil, from indigenous people until modernity. And the ceremony didn’t disappoint. Dancers performed on a lighted stage, taking viewers from first human habitation to the arrival of the conquistadors to the shame of slavery, and then onto immigration from Asia and the Middle East. The dancers then leapt across a stage lit to look like there were buildings springing up, apparently with the help of a Cirque du Soleil choreographer.

The ceremony also celebrated Alberto Santos Dumont, whom the Brazilians believe beat the Wright Brothers to be the first in flight.

Then the real highlight. Gisele Bündchen, walking across the stage to “The Girl from Ipanema.” The catwalk was her last and also a record for the world’s longest. Just watch.

Yep. What followed was more song, a dance about conflict, and a lengthy segment about the negative effects of climate change. Things were well-put together, the Brazilian performers were energetic and ridiculously talented, but we all know who the real star of the show was.

The ceremony concluded with a group dance. Once again, Gisele stole the show. That’s quality jump-dancing.

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10 Facebook Posts That Really Wind Everyone Up

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For the most part, Facebook is a wonderful place where you can connect with old friends, share interesting articles, and stalk your crush. Sure, some of us spend a little too much time on Facebook, but for the most part, Mark Zuckerberg’s brainchild has changed our lives for the better. Logging into our accounts can bring us laughter, joy, and even (if we’re lucky) love. It’s a way to stay connected in modern society, and share our perspectives and experiences with the world at large.

But then, there are those who threaten to ruin Facebook for everyone. We all have a few individuals in our feeds who drive us to the point of insanity with their relentless (and relentlessly awful) posting. They are the people for whom the “Unfollow” button was created: from your weirdo uncle who posts right-wing conspiracy theories every 30 minutes, to your frenemy who has made it her mission to publicly document every single brunch dish she consumes. We feel your pain, which is why we’ve compiled a list of the 10 types of Facebook posters who drive us all crazy.

The Self-Promoter

The Self-Promoter loves nothing more than to issue approximately 18,000 posts a day about his new band, fashion blog, or life-coaching practice. What the Self-Promoter fails to realize is that by turning his personal Facebook page into a nonstop spam generator, he is actually hurting the cause he is attempting to promote. But self-awareness is not something the Self-Promoter typically possesses; if he did, he’d realize that the life-coaching practice he’s shoving in everyone’s face is actually total nonsense.

The Compulsive Baby-Pic Publisher

Everyone loves babies. But that doesn’t mean everyone loves seeing their Facebook feed jammed with pictures of your baby. The Compulsive Baby-Pic Publisher takes parenthood posting to an unhealthy level. Parents should be spending quality time with their newborns, not wasting hours online, trying to turn their babies into social media stars. But this is a tip that is lost on the Compulsive Baby-Pic Publisher; every moment of her child’s life must be relentlessly documented for all of Facebook to see.

The Candy Crush Bully

The Candy Crush Bully is an individual who will send his victim an aggressive number of Candy Crush Saga Facebook invites. It doesn’t matter if the Candy Crush Bully barely even knows his target; he will still dispatch weekly reminders of his Candy Crush request. These repeated requests are enough to drive anyone insane, especially if said victim has no interest in playing Candy Crush Saga. If your addiction to Candy Crush is ruining your friendships, you are probably a Candy Crush Bully. Seek help immediately, before the game Candy Crushes your social life.

The Passive-Aggressive Vaguebooker

The Passive-Aggressive Vaguebooker is one of the more annoying specimens in the Facebook universe. For those unfamiliar, “vaguebooking” is the practice of posting intentionally vague messages that usually allude to someone or something that is pissing off the Vaguebooker. A common post goes a little something like: “Someone in my life is driving me CRAZY right now; seriously don’t understand how some people can live with themselves.” The Vaguebooker posts this message on Facebook, in a desperate plea for sympathy. But it is awfully hard to sympathize with someone when you have no idea what they’re talking about. The Vaguebooker’s cries for attention are helping absolutely no one, including the Vaguebooker herself. The best thing to do if you have a problem is confront it head-on — not write a weirdly ambiguous Facebook post about it.

The Political Troll

This archetype is in abundance these days. The Political Troll loves to publish 1,000-word Facebook posts, mansplaining to the world why his political views are better than those of any other human on earth. If you dare to contradict him, he will immediately drag you into a 30-comment fight, refusing to back down on any point. It doesn’t matter if you are a Republican, Democrat, or Green Party — Political Trolls can exist in any party. No one is safe from their pontificating.

The Relentless Selfie-Poster

The Relentless Selfie-Poster never met a location that didn’t inspire a selfie — the gym, the bathroom, the workplace, even funerals are fair game. Relentless Selfie-Posters basically have their phones welded onto the palms of their hands, ready at a moment’s notice to snap a duck-faced selfie. They possess alarming levels of narcissism, and most likely a membership to CrossFit (those ab-centric selfies gotta come from somewhere). There’s only one way to deal with the RSP: Hide those posts.

The TV Spoiler

We’re all busy people, and often we’re unable to catch the original broadcast of our favorite TV show. Fortunately, in the age of smart TVs, HBO Go, and DVR, it's possible to save recordings of your favorite shows and enjoy them at a later date. Be warned, though, gentle DVR users: Don’t log on to Facebook before watching that episode of Game of Thrones. If you do, you run the risk of seeing the post of a TV Spoiler. TV Spoilers are people who somehow manage to watch every TV show the night it airs, and then post spoilers for all to see. If you've got to share your thoughts on the show right then, share them on Twitter.

The Event Inviter

The Event Inviter is someone whom you barely know, but who always invites you to her monthly sketch-comedy show, “networking drinks,” or immersive zombie-themed dinner theater. This person will send the Facebook invite, and then make about 500 posts per hour on the event page. Each of these posts sends you a notification, until you have a spare minute to desperately click the “Ignore” button on the event.

The Oversharing Couple

The Oversharing Couple is more concerned with the performance of their relationship than the actual relationship itself. They live to document their experiences together, whether that be a vacation in Maui or a trip to Whole Foods. No experience is too minor to document, and it seems like the Oversharing Couple will not rest until their entire relationship has been broadcast on Facebook. They operate under one core belief: If they didn’t photograph it, it didn’t happen.

The Humblebragger

The Humblebragger makes constant “good news” announcements on his Facebook feed, always affecting a pose of modesty or self-deprecation. For example, a typical post might read: “Ugh, just spilled coffee all over the deed to my brand-new $3.5-million home! #HomeownerFail.” Even worse is the fact that the Humblebragger has a seemingly endless supply of major life accomplishments to rub in your face. Promotions, new cars, weddings, and babies are all fodder for the Humblebragger’s feed. He also has a tendency to affix at least 30 unironic hashtags to each and every post. Chief among them? “#Blessed,” of course.

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The Internet Is Not Happy About This Natural Hair Tutorial

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Although disappointing, it's common knowledge that most of the beauty industry isn't exactly well-versed in styling natural hair. The horror stories from models of colour are, sadly, aplenty. And though there are now more curly tresses on the runway, and many brands have made it a mission to come out with curl-friendly products, there's still a long way to go. Case in point: a recent tutorial on US daytime staple the Today show that's going viral.

During a segment called "One-Minute Summer Hair," on-air beauty expert Deepica Mutyala shows viewers how to create easy styles in — you guessed it — 60 seconds or less. The first model receives a (super-cute!) high-ponytail rope braid. But when Mutyala tries to demonstrate a side ponytail on Malyia, the curly-haired model, things quickly take a bad turn.

To start, Mutyala pulls Malyia's hair into a high side-ponytail. She then proceeds to (somewhat aggressively) pull out and loosen the curls around the model's face, resulting in a cringeworthy, '90s-esque look. And the internet responded swiftly.

One viewer uploaded a home video of the segment to Facebook, which you can watch above, which now has more than 5.6 million views. Reactions like these flooded the comments section: "Can't let everyone play in ya hair especially on TV smh lol," "Oh those poor models having to smile knowing good and well they look a hot mess," and "Lmao omg she didnt know anything about natural hair , && somebody pulls on my ponytail like this theres gonna be problems."

According to Us Weekly, unhappy viewers also flocked to Mutyala's Instagram to express their disappointment. She issued the following apology in the comments: "I apologize if I offended you or anyone by no means was that my intention. I am passionate about diversity and it's an incredibly hard battle to fight. Getting in front of the camera is only the first step. I understand representation matters but that also needs to come w compassion, consideration to cultural nuances and respect. I'm truly so genuinely sorry that didn't come across in that segment... @themodelmalyia is absolutely stunning & I'm so grateful she was able to model for me ❤️ apologies again & hope you understand that my heart was in the right place xo."

Malyia came to Mutyala's defence in the thread: "Deepica practiced several times on my hair with the style and I loved it,” Malyia wrote. “As most of you may be aware natural hair reacts to the environment and without being allowed tools or products the final result didn't turn out like the way we intended. I say all that to say I was honored when asked to be a model. And even more grateful to be a visual representation for women that look like me … I would not hesitate to be on another show or segment including hair. This was a dream come true to be on national TV for the first time. Deepica is a sweetheart and I look forward to working with her again. Sending good vibes."

We have reached out to the Today show for comment, and will update the post when we hear back.

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Renee Zellweger Calls Out Gossip Magazines' "Snark Entertainment" In Powerful Personal Essay

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In a Jennifer Aniston-style essay for The Huffington Post, Renee Zellweger has highlighted the dangers of so-called "snark entertainment" in gossip magazines, and the way it can seep into the mainstream media.

The Oscar-winning actress argues that though an infamous October 2014 tabloid report claiming she'd undergone eye surgery in pursuit of a more youthful appearance "didn’t matter," the way it sparked a wider debate in more traditionally reputable areas of the media really did.

"It became the catalyst for my inclusion in subsequent legitimate news stories about self-acceptance and women succumbing to social pressure to look and age a certain way," Zellweger writes. "In my opinion, that tabloid speculations become the subject of mainstream news reporting does matter."

Almost as an aside, Zellweger points out that the 'eye surgery' story was false, but she's more concerned with attacking the "double standard" which still allows women, however successful and respected, to be judged according to perceived flaws in their appearance.

"The resulting message is problematic for younger generations and impressionable minds, and undoubtably triggers myriad subsequent issues regarding conformity, prejudice, equality, self acceptance, bullying and health," Zellweger argues.

Zellweger ends her essay with an entirely sensible call-to-arms: essentially, that we should talk more about our collective "appetite for witnessing people diminished and humiliated with attacks on appearance and character," and the way this "impacts younger generations and struggles for equality."

"Maybe we could talk more about our many true societal challenges and how we can do better," the Bridget Jones actress urges in her final line. You can read Zellweger's essay in full over on The Huffington Post.

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Is There Gender Equality At The Rio Olympics?

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The Olympic Games are closer to achieving gender equality than ever before, according to figures released by the IOC (International Olympic Committee).

Vox reports that 45% of competitors at Rio de Janeiro will be female, a slight rise on the previous best of 44.2% set at the London games in 2012. The percentage of female competitors has increased at every summer games since 1964, when just 13.2% of medal contenders were female.

According to figures available at the Team GB Media Centre, Great Britain and Northern Ireland are sending 366 competitors to the Rio games, of whom 164 are female and 202 are male. That represents a 45% female contingent, roughly in line with the overall figures.

By contrast, for the second consecutive summer games, Team USA are entering more female competitors than male competitors. Of their 554-strong team, 292 - or 53% - are female.

Vox also reports that 47.5% of events at the Rio games will be open to both male and female competitors, which again is a record high. While encouraging, it's worth noting that the summer games are still playing host to some strange gender-based discrepancies.

For example, as the Wall Street Journal reports, the longest distance that male pool swimmers can compete at is 1500m, whereas for female pool swimmers it's just 800m. This prevents Team USA's star swimmer Katie Ledecky from competing in one of the four solo events she won gold at during last year's world championships.

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Nice People Have More Sex, Study Suggests

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A recent study published in the British Journal of Psychology suggests that people who behave more altruistically have more sex. Consider this strong support for the saying, "you catch more flies with honey..."

For the study, 192 women and 105 men answered a survey about their altruistic habits, which included how often they donated blood, gave to charities, and helped out their neighbours. They then self-reported on their sexual histories. In comparing the participants' responses and their sex lives, researchers found that people who scored higher on the altruism survey were likely to have had more sexual partners.

Here's the thing about those results, though — the researchers were relying on the participants for an accurate account of their sexual history and their good deeds, which means there may be some over-reporting going on.

That said, we can't think of a reason not to donate blood, give to charities, and help your neighbours more often. Worse comes to worst, you'll have a little more sex.

Click through to Shape for more on having a healthy, happy sex life. (Shape)

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Don't Toss These! How To Wear 6 Old Trends In New Ways

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Photographed by Collins Nai.

In our current, fast-fashion-obsessed times, the trends move so quickly that we can hardly keep up — and that's saying something. In deciding which "of-the-moment" styles to adopt and which ones to ignore, it's difficult to differentiate between an item that's reached its peak and one that might actually make a comeback in a few short seasons.

And while we're all for getting rid of closet-space-wasters to make room for pieces you'll actually wear, sometimes, it's a fun challenge to take a piece of clothing that no longer feels relevant and figure out how to make it new again. You might be surprised just how much the right styling can give less-than-exciting tops or trousers a second chance.

To prove that this isn't all talk, we challenged a few members of our fashion team to show it really is possible to take a few old trends and teach them new tricks. Below, see how we completely reinvented six meh wardrobe placeholders.

Photographed by Collins Nai.
Photographed by Collins Nai.

The Trend: The skinny scarf

The Old Way: Around the neck

The New Way: As a belt

"I was admittedly an early adopter of the skinny-scarf trend, but unfortunately, it just didn't last. When the style first came about, I was all about wearing a plain, black skinny scarf with a tee and an equally on-trend (at the time) button-front skirt. It's crazy how these days, that look feels totally stale. To bring the item back to life, I tied it as a belt around my favorite pair of Levi's and wore it with a pyjama-style silk blouse tucked in. I totally dig this, and it's nice to know that with this new way to wear them, my scarves won't end up in a dusty ball at the back of my closet."

— Alyssa Coscarelli, fashion market writer

Photographed by Collins Nai.
Photographed by Collins Nai.

The Trend: The mock-neck dress

The Old Way: Solo with trainers

The New Way: Over cropped trousers

"Once the temperature drops below 15º C, you can expect to see me in a turtleneck every single day. I love the coverage, the comfort, and the easy, early-aughts, Felicity -esque sensibility it adds to my autumn aesthetic. So, when mock necks suddenly became a thing, I was pretty pumped: a turtleneck I can wear YEAR-ROUND? My love for this 2015 trend is documented on this very website.

"However, I'm a notorious late adopter of trends: Whereas we observed the first pique in mock-neck interest around April of last year, I would only get around to buying my very first take on this style during Black Friday / Cyber Monday sales. (I'm still contemplating chokers. Does that make me a bad fashion writer?) Anyway, despite my procrastination, I went all-in on this: I had multiple dresses and a handful of tops — enough that I could theoretically get away with never showing off my neck.

"Then, the bubble burst, and suddenly, everyone had moved on to slipdresses. I wasn't ready to let go of my precious mock-neck collection (if only because they never got their full day in the sun), so I figured they could use a 2016 revamp.

"Dresses-over-trousers feels like an appropriately nostalgic foil to the pervasiveness of slinky, silky maxis, so I'm all for it. I'm pretty petite, though, so I was hesitant about pairing two baggy/oversized layers — a shapeless mock-neck dress and kick-flare trousers — in such a way. (I rarely wear trousers that aren't skinny fit). However, the cropped length and playful, dangly hem on this black pair pleased me so, and balanced out the trapeze shape of the tunic. Plus, I had a little too much fun shaking around in front of the camera."

—Ana Colon, fashion news writer

Photographed by Collins Nai.
Photographed by Collins Nai.

The Trend: The crop top

The Old Way: On its own

The New Way: Layered over a long-sleeved graphic tee

"This loose, white, cropped tee has become a layering staple in my closet. With its big sleeves, pairing it underneath sleeveless dresses makes every piece better. But, I don't wear this tee as a crop top by itself anymore. Even with some good trainers and a pair of wide-legged trousers, as a plain, baggy top, this look isn't bad — but it's also not anything to freak out about. While layering underneath my summery stuff is cool and all, I've found a better way to wear this cropped tee — over an equally baggy long-sleeved shirt. The short-over-long-sleeved combo is going to be everywhere this autumn, so if you were thinking about getting rid of your old baggy crop tops, don't."

— Rachel Besser, fashion market editor

Photographed by Collins Nai.
Photographed by Collins Nai.

The Trend: The button-up shirt

The Old Way: Open over a tee

The New Way: Tied across the body

"Until recently, I never really put much thought into button-ups. The way I saw it, you put it on and button it up — that's it. But this whole skater trend that's going on right now has shown me the light, so to speak, on all the different ways you can wear it. I found this Chanel button-up from the '80s in a vintage shop, started playing with it, and now we're here. I'm not a crossbody-bag guy, per se, but now I wear it like my own little pageant sash. I like to think it makes me look like a skateboarder (even though I'm playing poser)."

—Landon Peoples, fashion editorial assistant

Photographed by Collins Nai.
Photographed by Collins Nai.

The Trend: The skinny jeans

The Old Way: With a black camisole

The New Way: With a tunic and statement slides

"I'm a dutiful reader of R29 fashion, so I know culottes are IT right now. But there are still days when my legs miss the semi-suffocating cling of stiff denim, so I'm not ready to retire my skinny jeans. These high-waisted, dark-wash Levi's really go with anything, but that doesn't mean the outfits I've put them in are all that inspired. Pairing them with something that's otherwise a too-big shirt, or a shirt dress that doesn't fit exactly right, is a great styling trick: The skinny jeans become almost leggings-like, anchoring the statement piece to my frame underneath, and the tunic top swinging open when I move makes it a much more intentional look than my regular 'this tank is okay I guess' M.O."

— Laura Norkin, copy chief

Photographed by Collins Nai.
Photographed by Collins Nai.

The Trend: The denim vest

The Old Way: Over a dress

The New Way: In a denim-on-denim ensemble with a neck scarf

"The number of times I've cycled a denim vest through my closet is pretty high. It's one of the few trend pieces that comes back every few years, rather than every few decades. However, the latest iteration (tight, cropped, and light-wash) has become super-basic.

"A couple of years ago, I would pair this vest with every mini dress and jeans-tank combo I had in my closet. For the vest to make the cut now, I needed to shift my approach. Instead of using it as just a finishing accessory, I decided to make the vest the focal point of my outfit. I left the bottom buttons of the vest undone to give the stiff material more flexibility, and wrapped a thick neckerchief around my neck to play down the tight-looking collar.

"Then, so I wouldn't over-complicate it, I treated it like any of my tees and paired it with my favorite culottes and heels. I've had this denim vest for years, but this look definitely felt fresh. Bonus points for staying ahead of the curve, since denim-on-denim is coming again this autumn!"

— Ray Lowe, fashion market writer

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People With Down Syndrome Are Tired Of These Stereotypes

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Even when people hold nothing against those with disabilities, they can often unintentionally speak to them in a condescending or alienating way. BBC Three's "Things People With Down's Syndrome Are Tired Of Hearing" video exposes some of the things people say when they don't understand Down Syndrome, in particular.

Down Syndrome is a set of physical and mental traits usually caused by an extra 21st chromosome. While some have considered it a disorder in the past, it's really just another characteristic that varies within the human population.

According to the video, one myth about people with Down Syndrome that needs to go is that they can't have relationships. "Kissing is my favourite pastime, I reckon," says one man with Down Syndrome. One woman describes herself as a romantic and another admits to having a crush on Justin Bieber.

Another comment one mum of a kid with Down Syndrome gets a lot is, "Will she be able to do this? Will she be able to do that?" The answer is always yes, though she may learn how to do these things differently.

"It doesn't stop you from doing anything," another woman with Down Syndrome agrees. She also wants to debunk the term "Down Syndrome sufferer": "The only thing I suffer from is bad attitudes."

One woman sums it up: "People with Down Syndrome are just normal people." Ultimately, the things you shouldn't say to people with Down Syndrome are just the same things you just shouldn't say to anyone.

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Say Hello To The New Bathroom Tile Trend

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The metro tile fast became the go-to for easy, stylish kitchens and bathrooms. It may be the favourite sibling, but recently we’ve spied an uprising of tiles of a subtly different kind making their way into bathrooms. Behold the square tile. Ok, so it’s not a huge departure from the brick shaped metro, but a slight tweak in proportions will give your space a point of difference to all those metro-clad bathrooms out there. So think outside of the rectangle and be inspired by our selection of the best square-tiled bathrooms. It’s hip to be square.

Pale mint green tiles give a fresh, slightly vintage tinge to a bathroom (in a good way.) Just a small splashback area is all it takes to give a boring bathroom a pretty edge.

Photo: Courtesy of My Scandinavian Home.

The tiles may be square, but the arrangement in this Antipodean bathroom follow the same brick overlap as their rectangular metro siblings. Grey grout and luxe brass fittings put a polish on the finished look. It's amazing what you can do with a plain white tile.

Photo: Courtesy of The Design Files.

Another way to make a plain square tile more interesting is to clash it with other types of tile. Patterned, tiny hexagonal mosaics, cement…the list goes on. Be brave with contrasting the tiles right next to each other – it pays to be bold.

Photo: Courtesy of Elizabeth Roberts.

Putty pink square tiles could end up looking like something from a 1970s home for the elderly, but team them with black grout, sleek black fixtures and crisp architectural lines and you’ve got a winning bathroom combo.

Photo: Courtesy of Design Milk.

Another slight variation on the square theme, the Moroccan Zellige tile is a trend all of its own. With a rustic texture and a glossy glaze, it’ll transport you to a sunny riad in an instant. Because of its high gloss finish, it reflects loads of light around a space too, so it’s even better for small bathrooms.

Photo: Courtesy of DPAGES

White on white – you can’t go wrong. This monochrome bathroom keeps it simple with plain tiles and white grout so all the subtle details can come forward, such as the marble top and designer lighting.

Photo: Courtesy of Hancock + Kulcsar.

Of course, if you’re not quite ready to give up your trusty metro just yet, try mixing it up between the two. Create a pattern with square and rectangular white tiles for a less obvious look.

Photo: Courtesy of Apartment Therapy.

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Olympic Athletes' Weird Pre-Event Rituals

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Photo: Imago/REX/Shutterstock.

Most of us have rituals or routines that might not make much sense. Whether it’s wearing a certain t-shirt because it has good vibes, preferring to use the second bathroom stall in a public toilet rather than any of the others, or waiting at the precise same spot on the train platform every morning, things like this make us feel safe, and help us make our world feel manageable, like we’re in control.

However, some people have jobs that can make you feel very out of control – such as pro athletes. When you have to run really fast against other really fast runners, or throw a 4 kilogram metal ball really far, the world must seem very scary. Things could so easily go wrong in a split second and in that split second you have little say over what happens, no matter how hard you’ve trained – it’s little wonder that many of the athletes competing at the Rio Olympics this summer need a few rituals of their own to feel grounded and secure. Here, we’ve rounded up some of the superstitions that Olympic athletes use to manage the stress…

Laura Unsworth, hockey (GB)

Laura believes that her teammate Ashleigh Ball using hair straighteners pre-match is bad juju and has banned it. She told the Evening Standard: “Ashleigh has really curly hair which she straightens before important matches, but I’ve made her stop since she straightened it and we did badly in a match.” Laura’s own ritual involves going to the toilet before going to the changing room and again after warm-up.

Photo: Kieran Galvin/REX/Shutterstock.

Kayla Harrison, judo (USA)

The gold medallist wears lucky socks that her grandma gave her. "I'm big on ritual and I'm big on patterns and I get comfortable," she has said, according to CBS. "And when I get comfortable, I get confident. And when I get confident, I win."

Photo: REX/Shutterstock.

Jade Jones, taekwondo (GB)

Jade was wearing her trusty lucky Union Jack knickers when she won gold at the London 2012 Olympics. “I always wear them in training, although obviously I washed them! I’ve got a few more pairs now. I’ve always been really superstitious,” she explained at the time. “I used to take my grandad’s lucky brown boots to training with me.”

Photo: Graham Chadwick/REX/Shutterstock.

Evelyn Stevens, cyclist (USA)

For Evelyn, success boils down to a lucky blue sports bra that she’s worn since 2009: “My older sister gave it to me, and I did a few early races with it and started winning. Of course, it wasn’t the training or my ability, it was the blue lucky sports bra,” she said.

Photo: REX/Shutterstock.

Stephanie Rice, swimming (AUS)

Stephanie’s pre-race ritual involves swinging her arms eight times, and splashing her body with water four times and then pressing her goggles into her face four times.

Photo: REX/Shutterstock.

Alex Danson, hockey (GB)

Alex spins her hockey stick exactly 15 times before each game.

Photo: REX/Shutterstock.

Jessica Ennis, heptathlon (GB)

Arguably one of the greatest athletes Britain has ever produced, it doesn’t mean that Jessica relies on her skill alone. “Superstitions help your mindset and can make a real difference,” she told Men’s Health in 2010. “I have a lucky tape measure I always use for lining up my blocks.”

Photo: Imago/REX/Shutterstock.

Laura Trott, cyclist (GB)

Laura steps on a wet towel while wearing a pair of clean socks before each race. This is because she once won a junior race while wearing a wet sock.

Photo: Simon Wilkinson/REX/Shutterstock.

Jodie Williams, sprint (GB)

A more chic superstition than most: Jodie always has to wear a certain colour nail varnish. “I always wear blue nail varnish when I compete, so I always have to have blue nail varnish on,” she told website Food and Lycra in 2014.

Photo: Jodie Williams/REX/Shutterstock.

Paula Radcliffe, long-distance running (GB)

The veteran runner always uses same safety pins to affix her race number to her vest, and always wears the same jewellery.

Photo: APA PictureDesk GmbH/REX/Shutterstock.

Sarah Ayton, sailing (GB)

A horseshoe and a pair of lucky red socks are the things Sarah needs in her arsenal to feel confident.

Photo: Jamie Wiseman/Associated Newspapers/REX/Shutterstock.

Jillian Camarena-Williams, shotput (USA)

The formidable track-and-field athlete always wears a yellow ribbon her granny gave her tied around her ponytail.

Photo: Richard Heathcote/Getty Images.

Rebecca Adlington, swimming (GB)

Rebecca has said in the past that her desire for control manifested itself as OCD: "I can only set my alarm on two, four or six. Otherwise I think the worst is going to happen," she said.

Photo: Mark Pain/REX/Shutterstock.

Sanya Richards-Ross, sprint (USA)

Sanya always wears a lucky necklace her mum gave her. “I have a bullet necklace that my mom gave me when I was in the seventh grade. She told me I was faster than a speeding bullet and so I wear it to all of my competitions as kind of my good-luck charm,” she told Women's Running.

Photo: Back Page Images/REX/Shutterstock

Helen Reeves, canoeist – now commentator (GB)

Before competitions, Helen had to listen to the songs Dolly Parton's "9 to 5", Neil Diamond's "Forever In Blue Jeans" and "Seven Nation Army" by White Stripes in that order.

Photo: Andy Hooper/Daily Mail/REX/Shutterstock.

Erin Hamlin, luge (USA)

Erin – who won the USA’s first-ever Olympic medal for luge in 2014 –always puts her right glove on first. “Not really sure why, it just started happening,” she told Health.com.

Photo: Christof Koepsel/Bongarts/Getty Images.

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Empowering Photos Of Women Celebrating World Breast-Feeding Week

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Breast-feeding is no easy task, even though it's basically one of the most natural things humans do. Having to breast-feed in fear of being judged by others seriously compounds the difficulty, though. That's just one of the reasons it's beautiful to see photos of women from all over the world joining together, with little ones latched on out in the open, for World Breast-Feeding Week.

According to the Daily Mail, 500 women gathered in Pasig City, Philippines, on Saturday, simultaneously feeding their children and holding up signs with slogans like "Breast Is Best." There were similar demonstrations in 120 countries, including China and Romania.

The event, organised by World Alliance for Breastfeeding Action, has been held since 1992. It's about much more than Mila Kunis being allowed to feed baby Wyatt in a restaurant without comment. The goal is to raise awareness of breast-feeding's health benefits and its role in alleviating global poverty (formula is very expensive). There's a lot of good those mamas can do while flashing their breasts to the world.

Nearly 50 women feed their children in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, China.

Photo: VCG/Getty Images.

Not content with just a week, Philippines makes all of August National Breast-Feeding Awareness Month.

Photo: Getty Images.

It's a different kind of "flash mob," as 40 mothers sit down in Shanghai.

Photo: VCG/Getty Images.

This mom in Bucharest knows: The most rewarding part of breast-feeding is that snuggly post-meal snooze.

Photo: Andreea Alexandru/AP Images.

Many of the mothers at the Village Museum in Bucharest demonstrated in traditional costumes.

Photo: Andreea Alexandru/AP Images.

These mothers in Bucharest are feeding in tandem.

Photo: Andreea Alexandru/AP Images.

Flower crowns and freedom were the calls to action in Bucharest.

Photo: Andreea Alexandru/AP Images.

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The Best Celebrity Instagrams & Photos From The Olympics

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The 2016 Rio Olympics are finally underway. After months of worrying about Zika, Brazil's water quality, and a host of other issues, the world's best athletes have congregated in Rio. It's still reportedly a mess: the Olympic village is unfinished, the water is still unsafe for swimming, and there isn't even coffee. Yet, athletes are overlooking these issues to put on the best showing for their countries.

They're competing for their native country's respect and those medals.

While the Olympics are all about sports, some celebrities, many of whom happen to be athletes, are also partaking in the fun. Serena Williams, Gisele Bündchen, Michael Phelps, and a legion of other celebs presented and carried the Olympic torch, or held their country's flag during the opening ceremony and events leading up to the big show.

Many of them are sharing the beauty of the Olympics on Instagram. Here are some of the most stunning celebrity photos of the event so far...

Morgan Lake, high jump

We're a little bit obsessed with the British high jump champion, Morgan Lake, pictured here with Jazmin Sawyers and sprinter Dina Asher-Smith (l literally flying the flag for the UK.

Photo: Via @morganalexandralake.

Sarah Attar, 800m

Imagine being both a professional and an artist? Meet Sarah Attar, the saudi Arabian 800m champ who also happens to be a brilliant photographer.

Photo: Via @sarahattar.

Siobhan-Marie O'Connor, swimmer

The British Olympic swimme r posted this 4 days ago of an empty pool- fast forward less than a week and she's bagged an Olympic silver for GB in the water. Woop!

Photo: via @siobhanmoconnor95.

Tom Daley, Team GB Diver

Diving champ Tom Daley gets a group selfie with #teamGB ahead of the opening ceremony in Rio.

Photo: via @tomdaley1994.

Venus Williams, U.S. Tennis Player

Williams is the No. 6 ranked tennis player in the world, so of course, she's representing America at the Olympics. "Good morning red, white and blue sky's [sic] of #rio #olympics," she wrote on Instagram.

Photo via @venuswilliams.

Johanna Konta, Team GB Tennis Singles Champ

Great British tennis champ Johanna Konta, who has eased through the second round of women's singles with fellow GB team member with Heather Watson goofing around on court.

Photo: via @jokonta91.

Camilla Belle, American Actor

Belle's gorgeous shot of the fireworks captures the beauty of the event. Best of all, Brazil is her mother's native country, so this summer Olympics has special meaning for her.

"I still can't believe I was at the Opening Ceremony of the Olympics in Rio with my Mom...celebrating together in her home country," she wrote on Instagram in English and Spanish. "A moment I will never forget."

Photo via @camillabelle.

Tonia Couch, Team GB Diver

Tonia Couch, the British Olympic dive champion adds a few inches to her height with the help of American basketball players DeMarcus Cousins and DeAndre Jordan.

Photo: via @toniacouch.

Jazz Carlin, Team GB Swimmer

British swimmer Jazz Carlin – who nabbed silver in the women's 400m freestyle yesterday – makes a splash.

Photo: via @jazzcarlin.

Gisele Bündchen, Brazilian Model

Now, that is a dress. Bündchen showstopper of a gown was fitting garb for the opening ceremony party.

"It was very exciting to be part of this special moment. Everyone involved worked with dedication and passion to create a show that gave the world a glimpse of our history and Brazil's essence," she wrote on Instagram. "It was beautifully presented. Our Brazilian community is hard-working, cheerful, and welcoming. I believe that we showed the world the beauty of our diversity."

Photo: Jamie Squire/Getty Images.

Jessica Ennis- Hill, Team GB Heptathlete

Olympic Heptathlon Champion, Jessica Ennis-Hill takes a snap from the athlete's village. Have a look at what she has for breakfast here...

Photo: via @jessicaennishill.

Alessandro Ambrosio, Brazilian Model

The native Brazilian carried the Olympic torch, an honour for any person given the chance. She said as much in an Instagram post.

"Today it was an honor to carry the Olympic torch!!!" she wrote. "I'm so proud and grateful to be Brazilian and to represent my country !!!! What an Epic moment for me..."

Photo: Buda Mendes/Getty Images.

Rafael Nadal, Spanish Tennis Player

Rafael was out in force showing support for The Games. "Proud to represent #Spain in #Rio2016!!" he wrote in both English and Spanish on Instagram.

Photo via @rafaelnadal.

Dina Asher-Smith, Team GB Sprinter

Dina Asher-Smith shares a selfie in her GB kit. Read our interview with the fastest woman in British history here.

Photo: via @dinaashersmith.

Serena Williams, U.S. Tennis Player

Williams and her fellow Team USA players are wearing America's team colours. She's already a gold medalist and is looking to add to her total this summer.

Photo via @serenawilliams.

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Your Horoscope This Week — Aug 07 2016

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Illustrated by John Lisle.Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Strategy session, anyone? Potent Pluto and mental Mercury share a signal this Wednesday, sharpening everyone's intellectual abilities. Take nothing at face value, though! Detective Pluto likes to plumb the depths and discover what's hidden in the shadows. Curiosity may have killed the cat, but it's Mercury's calling card. Asking strategic questions can also churn up clues. With these two planets in cahoots, conversations could get pretty suggestive. Pluto is the seducer of the skies, while Mercury is an unapologetic flirt. Circle Wednesday for making your most amorous moves!

On Saturday, the promise of world peace could become a glimmer on the horizon of hope again. Challenger Saturn snaps out of a five-month retrograde and powers forward through Sagittarius — the sign that governs global relations and higher truths. Since Saturn went to sleep on the 25th of March, we've seen police brutality hit the breaking point, disastrous Trumpnados, international violence, and critical levels of xenophobia. But here's hoping the sensible planet's U-turn restores some sanity to our world. On a personal level, forward-moving Saturn can help us put structure behind our dreams — particularly Sagittarius-related ones like applying to university programs, traveling cross-continentally, publishing, and starting entrepreneurial ventures. Multicultural relationships will benefit from the strengthening powers of Saturn. Simply put, #LoveWins.

Leo

July 23 to August 22

Started from the bottom, now you're here! This week, your tireless efforts could really start to pay off. Remain focused! With Wednesday's auspicious alignment between powerful Pluto and clever Mercury, you'll attract some heavy-hitters your way. But this is not a fake-it-'til-you-make-it moment, Leo. Be honest about your current capacities as well as your eagerness to grow and learn. If you're not ready to slay in the executive suites, settle for "office ingénue." Making coffee runs for the influencers also means getting your foot in the door with them. Everyone starts somewhere! But this week, it's all about who you know — and who you are near.

Your star will rise on Saturday — or, should we say, rise again. Heavy-hitting Saturn, which has been retrograde in your fifth house of fame and romance since March 25, makes a positive U-turn, and gets back in gear. No more flying under the radar, Leo. If you've been hustling and developing your talents this year, you can finally start to promote them again. Stalled romantic situations get some traction now. Stop pulling petals off that damn daisy! Saturn helps you clarify: Do you love them, or love them not? And moreover, are your affections being reciprocated? If so, talks could turn to "next steps." If not, gather up your pearls and stop laying them before swine.

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Virgo

August 23 to September 22

Why settle for a few random likes when you could be a total Snapchat sensation? (Or, uh, something like that.) Early this week, messenger Mercury gets in the trenches with magnetic Pluto, helping you raise your visibility big-time! Find your "hook," Virgo: What unique traits can you play up that separate you from the pack? These should be authentically you; nothing forced or fake. There's a part of your personality that you reserve for your closest crew...and that's exactly what we're talking about here. Embrace your hidden weirdness and wear it on your sleeve (maybe as a sleeve tattoo, even). Turn it into art, music, poetry, or a choreographed dance piece. Your creativity will slay under these stars.

A Virgo cannot exist on leafy greens alone, and on Saturday you'll feel inspired to nourish yourself properly once again. Structured Saturn, which has been on hiatus in your domestic fourth house since March 25, snaps out of retrograde and awakens your inner mom vibes. Before you start taking care of your crew, how about handling stuff at your own home base? Hit the grocery store and pick up ingredients for these healthy summer meals. Once you're properly fed, you'll be ready to tackle a couple bigger missions like a massive bedroom reorg — or even moving to more suitable digs. Relationships with the important ladies in your life will get back into a healthy, grounded groove now. End-of-summer girls' trip, anyone? Yes, please.

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Libra

September 23 to October 22

You're everyone's favorite shoulder to lean on this week, Libra — a role you should just embrace. Hey, you didn't secretly read all those inspirational and self-help books for nothin'! But while you're at it, peruse those sections of Amazon for a few new titles; download a meditation app. The wisdom you glean will quickly become part of your thinking, and you can pass on these golden lessons to your soul squad. A family member will be particularly grateful for your empowering words, so don't hold back when that advice starts brewing in your mind.

On Saturday, heavy-hitting Saturn wakes up from a five-month retrograde in your communication zone, slowly restoring your gift of gab. Since March 25, you may have found yourself embroiled in some messy exchanges. (Cue Libra Kim Kardashian West's husband-defending social media maelstrom.) The simplest statement may have been misinterpreted, or maybe you just struggled to put your feelings into words. As Saturn makes a positive U-turn this weekend, you'll find it easier to break things down again...and in ways that get your point across proactively. A promising partnership could emerge in the days ahead, too. Join forces on a work project or creative collaboration, and you'll both soar higher. If you've been struggling with a sibling or colleague, the tension will soon smooth out. Put on the big-girl pants and deal with it maturely!

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Scorpio

October 23 to November 21

You're selective about who you let into your squad, Scorpio — and rightfully so. When you bond with people, you do so deeply, and you need to know that they're worth the effort. Early this week, your ruler omnipotent Pluto syncs up with social Mercury, putting a few new soul friends on your radar. Mingle mindfully! Hang out with the high-vibes crowd, because that's how you'll meet people who give, not just take. It's possible that you'll meet them through a class, lecture, or the introduction of mutual friends.

Happy news for your bank account comes on Saturday, when stable Saturn snaps out of retrograde and powers forward in your fiscally savvy second house. Since March 25, you may have had to tighten up the old belt a bit — and getting jazzed about work hasn't been easy. But with Saturn's positive pivot this weekend, you're back in "profit, produce, and progress" mode. Polish up your LinkedIn and avail yourself to the office influencers. Your dedication and diligence will score you loyalty points. And remember: Living lean doesn't mean starving yourself of all luxury. Focus on your income column, so you can get back to the Scorpionic art of treasure-hunting. Is there a gap in your skill set? Saturn rewards a steady effort, so sign up for that specialized training or evening classes and you'll quickly make your way to a higher pay grade.

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Sagittarius

November 22 to December 21

With your lust for life, money can seriously burn a hole in your pocket. But this week, take back a few b-words, like "budget" and "baller." With savvy Mercury and strategic Pluto pair-bonding in your financial zones, the fiscal floodgates could open. Socialize strategically: A casual conversation (with a curated crew) could quickly turn into shop talk. Investing in a promising startup or nailing a job interview could be as easy as turning on your winning smile and charming everyone in the room.

Celebrations are in order this weekend! On Saturday, taskmaster Saturn ends a crushing five-month retrograde that took place in your sign, no less. Since March 25, it's almost felt as if your lucky streak went AWOL. But Saturn is cruel to be kind. This phase forced you to fortify your foundation and build inner strength like never before. Here's hoping you rose to the challenge, Sagittarius! Because with Saturn back on track, elite opportunities will start flowing in as a result of your hard work. (Entrance to Berlin's Berghain, even?) And while your ascent may be slow and steady with Saturn here until December 2017, it's time to reset your sights on those lofty goals and start firing your arrows once again. Zing!

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Capricorn

December 22 to January 19

Where's the next stop on the Capricorn World Tour? Broader horizons beckon this week as curious Mercury in your travel zone gets a ping from potent Pluto. A spiritual pilgrimage could be in the stars, or a relaxing retreat that deepens your connection to yourself. Maybe you'll travel for business, pursuing one of your own independent ventures. If the purpose of your journey is yet to reveal itself, just start polling your friends about their favorite pin drops on Google's green Earth.

On Saturday your ruling planet, hardworking Saturn, snaps out of retrograde mode and back into action. Since March 25, the cosmic taskmaster has been on sabbatical in your 12th house of transitions and boundaries. As a result, you've had trouble moving on from things — even situations you know aren't in your best interest. As Saturn corrects course this weekend, you'll start regaining your ability to set healthy boundaries. Remember that "No." can be a complete sentence; no justifications are required when you know something won't work for you. Forward-flowing Saturn can now bring powerful mentors your way, and also help you create a structure for finishing up projects that have been stalled since spring. Work from a plan!

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Aquarius

January 20 to February 18

Are people's words matching their actions? Early this week, you'll need to read between the lines. Pay attention to body language. If someone's been "leaning in," it's a pretty clear clue that they are at least mildly attracted to you. But if they're nervously nodding with their arms crossed and a smile plastered on? Well, they might just be hiding something. Don the detective's cap and do some independent research. Don't invade anyone's privacy; just ask the right questions. If you're feeling the love, get some private, one-on-one time on the books. Set the stage for seduction, and you could finally get a romance underway. But if bae still doesn't take the bait, at least you'll know for sure that it's time to move on.

On Saturday, your social life stabilizes as challenging Saturn wakes up from a frustrating, five-month retrograde in your communal 11th house. Figuring out where you fit in hasn't been easy since spring. And even if you're solid with your squad, maybe you've dealt with weird divisions and in-fighting between friends. As of Saturday, you'll feel less concerned about what the so-called cool kids think and more interested in just banding together with high-vibes human beings again. Saturn's positive pivot might even inspire you to start a blog, podcast, or YouTube series. If you prefer to work your magic behind the scenes, learn a new geeky skill. This could soon spell money in the bank!

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Pisces

February 19 to March 20

Common ground and great on-paper credentials aren't always enough to make a relationship sing, Pisces. This week, the true litmus test is even simpler than that: Do you have fun together? Social Mercury flirts with alchemical Pluto all week, amping up your charm. Witty banter could give way to after-hours fun — and with someone you meet through a dating app or mutual friends, at that. Follow the natural chemistry instead of being so strategic in your search process. You'll be pleasantly surprised. Already attached? This week's mantra: The couple that plays together, slays together. Organize entertainment for your shared friend group. Planning a party together is bonding gold.

On Saturday, there's only one thing to do: Lean in. Ambitious Saturn has been snoozing in retrograde mode in your career zone since March 25. But this weekend, the heavenly hustler makes a U-turn and powers forward once again. If it's been two steps forward, one step back since spring, we can't blame you for wanting to throw in the towel. But don't! Pieces will start falling back into place again now. (The stars were just testing your willpower.) If you need to polish up your professional game, work with coaches and consult mentors. Having people who have "been there, done that" in your corner is the fastest way to the top.

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Aries

March 21 to April 19

Baby steps, Aries; baby steps. This week, you'll want to take your time and do everything by the books. One slip up could cost you, big time. But by the same token, your hawk-eyed attention to detail could bring pro-level credibility. As you cautiously climb — to the top, naturally — make sure you aren't complicating the whole procedure. The rule of K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple Sweetheart) will help you crush it, even if that means breaking your master plan into smaller phases.

On Saturday, you can expand your search radius again as stable Saturn wakes up from retrograde mode. Since March 25, the conservative planet has been napping in your ninth house of travel, expansion and higher truths. As a result, you may have felt like you were stuck in neutral with no clear direction of where to go. As Saturn pivots back into its power position, greener pastures call. You could soon be taking a journey — internationally, even — that helps you develop as a person, inside and out. Studying or going back to school may also be in the cards. Enterprising Aries might finally get the green light to start your own business or get a profitable media project, like a webinar or app, into dev.

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Taurus

April 20 to May 20

Authenticity is an aphrodisiac, Taurus — to thine own self be true! Early this week, expressive Mercury sidles up to seductive Pluto and gives you the courage to cut loose. Bring on the mic drops and naked vulnerability. You might only get that once chance to show people what you're made of. False advertising is utterly pointless. You'll only wind up in the wrong relationships if you start that way. And it's fine to be a bit more theatrical, especially near (or on) Wednesday. Just make sure you give other people a chance to shine too. The point of this exercise is to reveal your personality; not turn every occasion into The Taurus Show.

On Saturday, stoic Saturn snaps out of a five-month retrograde and starts pulsing forward through your erotic eighth house. Emergency lingerie drawer refresh, anyone? Saturn's backspin, which began on March 25, was like a cold shower on your libido at times. Maybe you got caught up in an obsessive crush or uncomfortably secretive situation. But as the heavy-hitting planet corrects course you're ready to love hard again — and with someone you feel proud to bring out in public. If you're already spoken fore, Saturn will now be a stabilizing force instead of a stultifying one. Take about "next steps" because your urge to merge could lead to a shared bank account, co-signed lease or other ways to unite and win.

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Gemini

May 21 to June 20

The force is most definitely with you this week, Gemini. (Light saber: totes optional.) Mystic Pluto and messenger Mercury will be in cahoots, bringing divine downloads and knowing feelings by the second. Question nothing — but investigate everything. Following your hunches could lead you right down destiny's path. If a word pops into your head, Google it. If you get the sense that you should turn down a certain street or spark up conversation with a "stranger," do just that. Energy has a language all its own and these flashes can guide you directly to your desires.

On Saturday, heavy hitting Saturn snaps out of a stultifying, five month retrograde in Sagittarius and your seventh house of relationships. The tide is turning, Gemini and soon you can bring back those loving feelings again. Since March 25 your emotions may have run hot and cold; or circumstances may have kept you and bae from, as they say on The Bachelorette, "starting our journey together." But now, solid Saturn is handing you the final rose and helping you choose a wise contender as the recipient. In the days ahead you could attract a legit love interest. Already attached? Talk shared goals this weekend. Building the dream together is how Saturn can help seal your bond.

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

Cancer

June 21 to July 22

The feels are oh-so-real this week, Cancer — don't let anybody tell you that you're overreacting! With psychic Pluto and messenger Mercury sharing a signal on Wednesday your gut instincts will tell you everything. If you sense some tension brewing, cleverly step in to smooth things over. Relationships can deepen under this starry spell so don't be afraid to open up. With the right person, your vulnerable vibes will be a turn-on. But if you know someone is off limits, run in the opposite direction. All the chemistry in the world won't make this sketchy situation legit! If it's meant to be, you'll be able to pursue it once the coast is clear.

On Saturday, take one more sip of that bottomless margarita before swapping it out for a strawberry smoothie. Saturn, the wise teacher of the skies, wakes up from a five-month retrograde in your healthy living zone and prompts you to clean up your act. Let your inner wellness warrior take the wheel. Avoid fads and quick fixes though. Slow, steady progress is the name of Saturn's game. Learn how to prepare meals with whole ingredients (read: stuff that comes from the ground instead of a lab) and find an exercise modality that actually works with your busy life. Engage your squad in your living well mission too. There's strength in numbers for your family-oriented sign!

Illustrated by John Lisle.
Photographed by Christine Hahn.

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This Model Made History At The Olympics Opening Ceremony

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Shortly after Gisele Bündchen set a record for sashaying down the world's longest ever catwalk, another Brazilian-born model made history at Friday night's Olympics Opening Ceremony in Rio de Janeiro.

As Huffington Post reports, Brazilian-born, Italian-raised model Lea T became the first trans woman to take on a role in an Olympics Opening Ceremony when she pedalled the bicycle that led the Brazilian team into the stadium.

Though pre-ceremony rumours had suggested the model, whose full name is Leandra Medeiros Cerezo, could be joining Bündchen on that record-breaking catwalk, the fact that her eventual role was slightly smaller hardly diminishes the significance of her very visible participation.

Speaking to the BBC before the Opening Ceremony, Lea T said her involvement would help send a message to the world. "Include everyone, no matter their gender, sexual orientation, race or religion. We are all human beings and we are part of society," is how she summarised that message.

"Brazil is a vast country and all its diversity should be somehow represented in this event," added the model, who has featured in editorials for Vogue Paris, Love Magazine and Interview Magazine, and is also a muse to Givenchy's creative director Riccardo Tisci.

After the ceremony, Lea T celebrated her achievement on Instagram by posting an inspiring picture of her pedalling into the Rio stadium.

Brasil, meu Brasil brasileiro Meu mulato inzoneiro Vou cantar-te nos meus versos O Brasil, samba que dá Bamboleio que faz gingar O Brasil do meu amor Terra de Nosso Senhor Brasil pra mim Pra mim, pra mim Ah! abre a cortina do passado Tira a mãe preta do cerrado Bota o rei congo no congado Brasil, pra mim Deixa cantar de novo o trovador A merencória luz da lua Toda canção do meu amor Quero ver essa dona caminhando Pelos salões arrastando O seu vestido rendado Brasil pra mim Pra mim, pra mim! Brasil, terra boa e gostosa Da morena sestrosa De olhar indiscreto O Brasil samba que dá Bamboleio que faz gingar O Brasil do meu amor Terra de Nosso Senhor Brasil pra mim Pra mim, pra mim! Oh, esse coqueiro que dá coco Onde eu amarro a minha rede Nas noites claras de luar Brasil pra mim Ah! ouve estas fontes murmurantes Aonde eu mato a minha sede E onde a lua vem brincar Ah! esse Brasil lindo e trigueiro É o meu Brasil brasileiro Terra de samba e pandeiro Brasil pra mim, pra mim, Brasil! Brasil pra mim, pra mim, Brasil, Brasil!✌🏼️✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️

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You Have To Watch These Videos Of Origami Food

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These videos will reconcile your arts-and-crafts-loving inner child with your food-porn-viewing adult self. The Australian Vine production company Yelldesign has laid bare the process of making iconic dishes from around the world out of paper, Travel and Leisure reported.

For Italy, there's origami penne and meatballs. The end product is a cross between a table setting and a desk.

There's also a very elaborate origami ramen bowl to represent Japan. It's got an egg sliced down the middle, a piece of pork belly, and everything.

The fish and chips are presumably for England, although they're served on top of The New York Times.

There's also a lesser-known food called jaffle, an Australian sandwich whose edges are sealed using a special iron.

These dishes look so good, you'll want to eat them. Unfortunately, they all look exceedingly complicated to make. And then there's the fact, of course, that they're made out of paper.

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We Have Some New Fave Ikea Products & They Might Surprise You

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Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Most people think of Ikea as the place to score a cheap side table, a wavy mirror set that resembles two strips of bacon, and a few random wine glasses. But look a little deeper — beyond the humongous showroom and the busy checkout lanes — and you’ll find one of the best international markets around. And we're not just talking about the meatballs.

Most of Ikea’s frozen or shelf-stable products use organic ingredients and are responsibly sourced to boot. They’re also very affordable. So not only will you save some money on your grocery bill, but you can find some seriously delicious international fare. Whether you’re entertaining a crowd, looking for tasty snacks, or just making a quick weeknight meal, Ikea’s market has something for you.

Frozen Pancakes

These Swedish pancakes have more in common with crêpes than the hefty plate-sized offerings at your local IHOP. Squeeze a little lemon wedge on top or smear with traditional lingonberry preserves for a light breakfast or snack.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Lingonberry Preserves

If you grab one thing from Ikea’s market, it should be this jar. Made without artificial ingredients or preservatives, this lingonberry jam will enhance a variety of dishes. Lingonberries taste a bit like cranberries, so you can imagine how a little smear on a roll will take your turkey sandwiches to the next level.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Biscuits With Chocolate Filling

Sometimes you just want a great, no-fuss cookie, and at only 80p a packet, these sandwich cookies filled with chocolate cream fit the bill. We love the smaller size and the low price point.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Sweet & Salty Liquorice

Swedes are known for their love of all things liquorice, so if you’re going to indulge, snap this up. We keep a bag or two in a little jar on our counter for snack emergencies.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Cinnamon Buns

You’re only a few minutes away from hot, toasty cinnamon buns. These crowd-pleasers are made with whole wheat dough — and you'll want to dig into one, two, or three.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Cheese Pie

These mini-quiches are studded with cheese and leeks. Have a few for a light lunch, or serve the whole box as part of an hors d'oeuvres spread.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Soft Wheat Bread

These fluffy bread squares are best for people who never seem to go through an entire loaf of bread. Take out what you need for a sandwich, or just toast a square and spread the jam or jelly of your choice.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Potato Fritters

These potato fritters make a terrific, easy side dish. If you’re feeling traditional, serve it with a few tablespoons of applesauce or sour cream. If you’re feeling adventurous, top it with a poached egg and some Sriracha.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Semi-Hard Cheese

Cheese lovers, toss this in your cart. This mild white cheese is perfect for melting, shredding, or snacking.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Ginger Thins

If you’re a ginger fan, definitely pick up a package of these thin cookies. They may be a bit fragile, but they’re bursting with sharp, gingery zing.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Cardamom Crisp Rolls

These toasted rolls are crispy and ideal for smearing with jam or topping with hunks of cheese.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Princess Cakes

The hardest part is waiting for these dainty cream cakes to defrost. Filled with raspberry jam and vanilla custard, they make a stunning, easy dessert for parties and showers.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Elderflower Syrup

Add a floral flavour boost to seltzer, champagne, or lemonade.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Lox

At first we were skeptical about Ikea’s line of frozen lox. But after a defrost in the fridge, we were blown away by how tasty the tender smoked salmon is. We like a few slices on a fresh bagel with cream cheese.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Crispbread With Dill

Serve a few of these on your next cheese plate, or just munch them straight of the box.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

Frozen Waffles

These delicate heart-shaped frozen waffles are out of this world. Make them sweet and top them with fruit and whipped cream. Or, make them savoury and top a few with fried chicken strips and hot sauce.

Photo: Courtesy of Ikea.

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Week 3: Steroids, Hair Loss, Fear

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Photo: Courtesy of Ariane Mason.

I’m Ariane, I’m 28 years old and on Monday 20th June 2016 I was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma.

Read the first part of my story here

And the second part here

'Roid Rage

Ahhhh, steroids, such a love hate relationship I have with you.

I have a week of taking them, then a week off them, and fuck me they make me feel GREAT! I’m on a really high dose – 120mg (26 pills) and they turn me into a Duracell bunny, bouncing off the walls, bounding through life, feeling positive about everything, like nothing can touch me, like cancer has nothing on me, like I’m not even ill. ‘Hey guys, look at me, not ill at all, cancer? What’s that? Do I look like I have cancer to you? Would someone with cancer be acting like this?” I go on a manic cleaning spree, I stay up until 1am with friends at a bar, I go on long country walks, I bake cakes, I cook, I go for dinner and plough down a large steak, I go shopping, I bash out a blog and get it published – all in a week. The steroids give me a false sense of wellness, they coat me in a protective bubble. I walk around in a dream-like state. There is a disconnect between my physical and mental self. I do not feel ill; I definitely do not feel like I have cancer, although I’m not quite sure how that’s supposed to ‘feel’. I can’t quite get my head around the fact that inside my body a million tiny cells have changed so much and so rapidly that I now have stage four cancer, I have a tumour in my chest, and my blood counts are so all over the place that I also now have anaemia, because mentally I feel well and actually physically, I feel pretty good too.

And then the dip comes. My consultant warned me of it, and boy does it hit. The first day of not taking them and I’m in the car on my way to pick up some friends. Out of nowhere, mid sentence my head literally drops to my chin, my speech slurs, I cannot talk, a pounding headache suddenly rages over my right eye. For the next few days everything feels like it has slowed down; there’s a soft blurring of the edges of my world, like my eyes have gone into slo-mo mode. I am coming down, I am coming down hard. I’m an anxiety-riddled, emotional wreck and I am suddenly very, very aware that I have cancer. The confidence I had for my new shaved head has gone, I hate my new wig, I don’t want to wear a head scarf. I cry a lot, for about two days. It’s the instability of everything at the moment that’s tough to deal with, the peaks and troughs, the ups and downs. Mainly though it’s the complete and utter lack of control over both my mind and body. I have gone from being a 28-year-old, independent, fun-loving, career-driven female making her own choices and steering her own destiny, to someone whose everyday life is dictated by disease and chemicals.

The steroids also have some really sexy side effects. Firstly, they’ve given me acne – great! I didn’t get acne when I was a teenager but now that I’m nearly 30, I have broken out in an acne-like rash which has decided to rest its little blackhead creatures all over my face. Up next: extreme eating. My appetite has gone into complete overdrive. I want to eat everything in sight, mainly things containing lots of sugar. My mind has no stop-eating switch, so I can and do just eat and eat and eat. I am having two breakfasts a day, lunch, dinner, dessert and normally a late night snack consisting of something really healthy and light, like a bowl of ice cream or some crumpets with lashings of butter. And then to complement the extreme eating, steroids make your body store fat in funny places, mainly your stomach and face. So yes, my flat, toned stomach that I’ve basically worked out on since I can remember – gone. Replaced with a permanent rounded little belly that has a nice orange peel texture, mmm yeah. My slim face, with good bone structure, that’s gone too. I now have what is known as ‘moon face’. So with my shaved head, acne-riddled, rounded, puppy fat face and boobs that have shrunken to nothing from losing so much weight, I now look like a 16-year-old boy. Cheers, cheers for that life, cheers.

Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow

My consultant told me that my hair would start to fall out a few days before the start of my second cycle of chemo and of course he was spot on. As if by some strange magic I woke up on Monday morning, had a shower and lots of my hair started to fall out. I got out the shower, brushed it through and even more came out. I tugged at the ends and could start to pull out small handfuls. My mum suggested I have it cut into a short bob but I just wasn’t ready to let go of it yet. I’d told myself over and over again, from the very start of my journey, that I wasn’t bothered about losing my hair, that I’d much rather have no hair and no cancer but of course when it started to happen I suddenly felt very attached to it.
Photo: Courtesy of Ariane Mason.

I don’t want to sound arrogant but I do (or I should say did) have great hair. People always comment on it and it has, to some extent, formed part of my identity. I spent the week looking over all my facebook pictures, at the various hair styles and colours I’ve had over the years. It felt like the hair loss was an assault on my identity and dignity. There is something very dehumanising about having no hair. It symbolised to me that I was ‘becoming’ a cancer patient.

As the week went on, more and more hair started to come out in my hands. I would spend mornings just tugging at it, filling the sink with hair and by the end of the week it was obvious that my hair had died. After not having washed it for a good 10 days, in a bid to desperately save it and with half of it already fallen out, it had become very limp, dry and matted. Basically, it looked like a dead animal had died and somehow managed to attach itself to my head. It was itchy, my scalp was tender and my hair no longer resembled my hair. It suddenly started to annoy me, I no longer wanted it, I’d fallen out of love with it and it was time to get rid.

So on the hottest day of the year so far (it was a good 30 degrees outside) myself and my beautiful friend Hannah, along with my boyfriend Barry, headed to the local barbers. I decided that I wanted to make it into a bit of an event. We all went for lunch beforehand and I asked Hannah to document everything with photos. Making it into an event somehow made it easier for me to deal with, like it was all a bit of fun. I went straight into the shop and asked the barber how much it would cost for me to have my hair shaved all over. He looked at me like I was mad, “Why do you want to get your hair shaved?!” I explained that I had just been diagnosed with cancer and credit to him, he just nodded like that was a normal, everyday thing that happened in his barbers and responded “£8.50” – the cheapest haircut ever. Normally my salon bill is at least £150.

I had a female barber do it, which was pretty cool and she totally took it her stride. As it came off, it actually felt quite exciting, almost like the shedding of something, maybe all the negative energy I’d been dragging around with me for the last few months. I left the barbers feeling totally liberated and I LOVED my new shaved head. Suddenly I had a new identity, a new style to play with and it wasn’t the ‘cancer patient’ identity that I thought it would be. It was a “Yeah, look at me being all edgy” kind of identity. Like all the great creatives out there, I had managed to reinvent myself. It helps that females with shaved heads are pretty on trend right now; think Stranger Things, Dazed's insta feed and buzz cut beauty Ruth Bell. And of course, it was a massive fucking relief to know that I don’t have a strange shaped head.

Photo: Courtesy of Ariane Mason.

Unfortunately, the beautiful shaved head didn’t last more than a few days. The hair continued to fall out and so I now have a patchy shaved head that is bald in places. I occasionally wear a head scarf or hat but for now I’m just rocking the shaved head for as long as I can, until it has literally all fallen out and I am bald. And I’m sure you're all gagging to know: Yes, I’ve lost my pubes.

Feminist rant time… It’s a pretty sad mark of society that even when struggling with cancer I am still obsessed with a) my weight and b) my looks. In my consultation after my first round of chemo, what was top of my list of things to discuss? My worry that I am getting fat from steroids. Keeping in mind that I have lost over a stone and a half in weight, I am hardly getting fat. I am hungry and at times, I find myself trying to stop eating because I’m worried I will get fat. I’m not exercising nearly as much as I used to, the steroids are making me eat everything in sight, yet I’ve only put on 1kg in about three months. So why, why, why am I so concerned about my weight? I have cancer for fuck's sake, hardly the time to be reading Vogue and thinking “Fuck, when am I getting my Karlie Kloss body in shape?” Yet issues surrounding how I should look as a female seem to be so ingrained in me that I cannot let them go, even when having chemo for stage four cancer. I feel down about having bad skin on my face, no hair on my head and feeling generally less feminine, somehow less of a woman. All these things play on my mind, and then I just have to have a serious moment of wising the fuck up, a serious moment of clarity, of realisation that I have to put my health first. As if a bit of podge, some spots and no hair is really what I should be worrying about. Right, time for another piece of cake then.

Fear And Loathing In Great Elm

People rarely talk about how terrifying it is being brave, but take it from me, it is, it really fucking is. Fear and anxiety lurk in strange places, like a lion stalking its prey in the long grass, they can pounce on you when you least expect it. Unfortunately for me, it’s not somewhere quite as exotic as an African plain, but instead Sainsbury’s or somewhere equally dull. Suddenly, I catch someone staring at me, clocking, 'oh, she must have cancer' and that’s enough for the anxiety devil to start yapping away in my ear.

And then there’s the darkness; a big, black, gaping hole that teases and beckons me in. 'Let yourself fall Ariane', it taunts, 'Fall into me, let your mind go, come on, go to those dark places, just for a moment, it might be easier for you, just to let go, just to give up, just to succumb. Take off the mask of courage, lay down your tired mind, breathe in the darkness, let it fill your lungs and mind with morbid, melancholic thoughts, wallow in negativity. Accept your ill fate. Give up the fight.'

I had my second PET scan this week – to see how and if I’m responding to treatment. I am praying for good news and I am trying to remain positive and brave. But they keep creeping in, those nasty, ugly, frightening thoughts. They go something like this:

I am too young to die. There is so much I want to do, so many places I want to visit, cultures I want to see, so many friends' weddings to go to and their babies to meet, so many amazing people I want to work and collaborate with, so many more roast dinners around my family’s kitchen table I want to eat, so many more tables at parties I want to dance on, so many hangovers I actually want to have. I am too young to die. Please let my scan results be positive. Please let the cancer in my lungs (the hardest bits to fight) be clearing. Please be killing these horrible, bastard cancer cells that have decided to attack my body and who are trying to eat me alive. Please be killing those fuckers and not me. I have so many amazing people to live for, so many people who NEED me to live. I am too young to die. Please, please, please let me LIVE.

And then comes the next thought, the game face prep: 'Dry your eyes mate. Splash lots of cold water on your face. Man the fuck up. And go and eat some (lots) of chocolate and pretend you’re fine. Because you are fine, you’re fucking great and you’re going to kick cancer's fucking ass.'

www.futurefertilitytrustuk.org

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How To Do Rio Like A Local

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By coincidence, I bought my ticket to Rio de Janeiro on the same day, last April, that the Brazilian senate voted to impeach embattled President Dilma Rousseff. In the months leading up to my move, I witnessed the image of the country turn from one of partying, tiny bikinis, caipirinhas, and samba to one of political coups, violence, mosquito-borne diseases, and economic collapse. Since arriving in Rio, I’ve been flooded with questions from American friends asking if things are “crazy” down here, which seems ironic to me, given the gun violence and political circus sweeping my home country at the moment. So are things “crazy” in Rio? Sure, but if we’re being honest, Brazil has had more than its fair share of crazy in recent decades, and its current reputation of violence and turmoil is no more representative of Brazil’s reality than partying and bikinis are. Certainly, the problems Rio is facing are very real, but cariocas, as Rio’s locals are known, haven’t allowed that to stop them from living.

Since I set foot in Brazil, I haven’t seen a single person douse herself in bug spray, but you can’t go far without seeing or hearing the words “Fora Temer” — that’s the adopted chant of those against Michel Temer, Brazil’s acting president. In Copacabana, a major tourist destination and Olympic site, the security presence has been amped up in the weeks leading up to the games, with tanks and machine-gun-toting police hanging around the metro stops. But the city’s many beaches are still crowded with tourists and locals sipping coconuts and playing futevôlei (a local hybrid of soccer and volleyball), just like always.

If you’re thinking about coming to Rio, put down the hysterical news articles and buy your ticket. As the first South American city to ever host the Olympics, Rio will inevitably have a major year. But no matter what goes down during the games, or what political and economic problems lie ahead, no one can accuse the people of Cidade Maravilhosa of not knowing how to have a good time. And just where should you go in Rio to find that good time? Read on to find out.

Clubhouse Rio

Want to go to a pop-up art gallery or listen to top DJs while you sip on cocktails on a terrace overlooking the city? I certainly do, especially if it’s just a few steps to bed after the party’s over.

Set in a gorgeous, completely renovated house, the Clubhouse Rio offers a little bit of everything. It’s a members-only club, a poolside bar, and an event space, plus there are five individually designed suites available to rent. The clubhouse, in the hills overlooking Ipanema and Copacabana, opened its doors in 2015, and it's the second of the Oasis Collections ’ private clubs. Don’t worry: Despite the frequent events, guests are still able to get plenty of beauty rest; parties here are more of the chilled-out variety than fist-pumping all-nighters.

If all five suites are booked, you can check out any of Oasis’ rental properties throughout the city. And even if you aren’t staying at the Clubhouse, check its Facebook page for info on upcoming events and be sure to get yourself on the list.

R. Saint Roman, 184 - Copacabana, Rio de Janeiro - RJ, 22041-001. Rooms from £85-£250 a night.

Courtesy of Clubhouse Rio.

Atlântico Rio

I wouldn’t recommend sitting in traffic on a bus for an hour, if the final destination weren’t absolutely worth it, and Atlântico Rio, the work of star Argentine bartender Tato Giovannoni, is most definitely worth it.

You wouldn’t guess by looking at it, but the unassuming red shack at Praia do Pepe in Barra da Tijuca serves the city’s most delightful cocktails, including creative twists on the classic gin and tonic with local flavours like cashew fruit and guava. (Although that should come as no surprise to those familiar with Tato’s reputation; his Buenos Aires bar Florería Atlántico has been named one of the best bars in the world.

Dine on fresh seafood, usually grilled and served with simple seasoning. Do bring a towel and swimsuit, so you can relax on the beach after stuffing yourself with cocktails and seafood. And fortunately for those who don’t enjoy long bus rides, the Rio metro’s new Linha 4 is set to open to the public soon; it will connect Barra da Tijuca to the more populated Zona Sul.

Rua Tenente Aírton Pereira, 53, Barra da Tijuca. Noon-midnight daily.

Courtesy of Atlantico Rio.

The Slow Bakery

Where does one go in Rio for fresh sourdough bread? Until recently, nowhere, which explains why The Slow Bakery caused such a stir when it set up shop in Botafogo. Ludmila Spindola and Rafael Brito had already achieved a following by selling their fresh breads at local food fairs, and they’re gaining new fans thanks to their permanent location. Though small, the café has everything you need to while away an afternoon, including goat cheese and tomato tartines, croque monsieurs, craft beer, a comfy couch, and trustworthy Wi-Fi.

Decor-wise, the place has the pared-down, industrial feel you’d expect of a hip new café, which is still something of a novelty in colourful Rio. If you want to pick up one of the spot's signature sourdoughs, olive loaves, or baguettes to take home, be sure to reserve it in advance. They sell out fast.

Rua São João Batista, 93, Botafogo. 11 a.m.-6 p.m. Tues; 11 a.m.-7:30 p.m. Wed-Fri; 9 a.m.-3 p.m. Sat.

Photo: Courtesy of The Slow Bakery.

La Paz

Lapa is the kind of neighbourhood where you can show up on a Saturday night without a destination in mind; just follow the crowds of revellers to any bar or club blasting music, or join one of the parties unfolding on the street.

But if you do take the time to plan your night out in Rio’s premier party neighbourhood, make sure to get yourself on the list at La Paz. Sister institution to Copacabana’s classic club Fosfobox (also worth a visit), La Paz is frequented by some of Rio’s best urban dancers and is one of the few places in Rio where you can dance to hip hop, funk, and rap. There are two floors and an open-air terrace where you can get your groove on, each with its own lineup of DJs, both local and international. Of course, if you have a terrible sense of rhythm, “getting your groove on” might translate to listening to Beyoncé and doing tequila shots while you let the pros take the dance floor — speaking from experience, that is.

Rua do Rezende, 82, Lapa

Photo: Courtesy of La Paz.

VOID General Store

Rio style can be a little, well, tacky, if I had to choose a word. And hey, while there’s nothing wrong with a bit of glitz, sometimes you need shot of urban cool to cleanse the palate. For that, I recommend VOID General Store, which brings a whole new meaning to the term “general." In addition to being a shopping venue, it’s also a place to grab a drink and a bite to eat.

Each weekend evening, there are so many young cariocas spilling out of the shop, you have to wonder why all clothing stores don’t also sell beer. But the window dressing of fancy food and drink aside, the clothes here are genuinely chic; think colour-blocked swimsuits in modern cuts, chunky sneakers and sandals, and oversized jewellery. With locations throughout Rio, including in Botafogo, Flamengo, and Leblon, VOID is definitely on its way to a national takeover.

Rua Voluntários da Pátria, 31, Botafogo. 11 a.m.-1 a.m. Sun-Wed; 11 a.m.-3 a.m. Thu-Sat.

Photo: Courtesy of VOID.

Jardim Botânico do Rio de Janeiro

People throw around the phrase “urban jungle” all the time, but I’ve yet to see a major city as truly “jungle-y” as Rio. For the times when you need a break from the crowds and the concrete, there’s the 140-hectacre Jardim Botânico. The botanical garden, which also lends its name to the surrounding neighbourhood, was founded by John VI of Portugal in 1808 and has some 6,000 species of plants. Once inside, you’ll see Rio’s jutting mountains rather than its skyscrapers and (mostly) escape the sounds of traffic.

Have breakfast at the charming café La Bicyclette at the gates of the park, so you can enter the garden when it opens at noon. Entrance is well worth the R$10 (cash only), but if you’re feeling cheap, you can also explore the nearby (and much smaller, though equally charming), Parque Lage for free.

Rua Jardim Botânico, 1008, Jardim Botânico. 8 a.m.-5 p.m. Tues-Sun; 12 p.m.-5 p.m. Mon

Photo: Courtesy of Emily Jensen.

Café Secreto

As a freelancer, my first question when I set foot in any new city is, “Where can I get good coffee and Wi-Fi?” Much to my surprise, Brazilians usually suggest Starbucks. Rio isn’t the easiest place to find a good cappuccino or a nice place to spend hours on your laptop, let alone both at the same time. Fortunately for caffeine-junkie-freelancers like me, there is Café Secreto, tucked away in Vila do Largo, a complex of artists’ studios and event spaces in the Laranjeiras.

The tiny café is split over multiple levels and serves a full range of espresso concoctions, from macchiatos to lattes, along with a small array of baked goods and snacks. Grab a seat at the bar and chat with the baristas as you enjoy a flat white and a piping-hot pão de queijo, or snag a table on the patio. If they aren’t all being hogged by laptop-wielding coffee lovers, that is.

Rua Gago Coutinho, 6, Casa 8, Laranjeiras. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Mon-Fr i.

Photo: Courtesy of Cafe Secreto.

Rio Design Leblon

Yes, this is a shopping mall, but hear me out. Cariocas love their shopping malls, and sometimes we all need to convalesce for a couple of hours in an air-conditioned building while looking at some pretty clothes. And Rio Design is as good as shopping malls get: There are stylish brands you won’t find elsewhere, there miraculously never seem to be any screaming children here, and the mall is full of thoughtful details, right down to the escalator with steps painted to mimic the famous Escadaria Selarón in Lapa. Don’t miss the whimsical shoes at Marcela B., Monica Pondé’s handmade jewellery, and Osklen’s sleek separates.

Some of us can only afford to window shop at Rio Design, and no one will blame you if you only come here for inspiration and then spend your money at Zara and Forever 21 at the more wallet-friendly shopping mall Rio Sul. (We just can’t promise there won’t be screaming children there.)

Avenida Ataulfo de Paiva, 270, Leblon. 10 a.m.-10 p.m. Mon-Sat, 3-9 p.m. Sun.

Photo: Courtesy of Rio Design Leblon.

Comuna

Since opening in 2011, Comuna has become synonymous with one thing: the city’s best burger. There’s not much to mark the entrance of the bar, except a concrete planter with the word “Comuna” spray-painted on it, but by now its reputation has grown enough that it doesn’t need any flashy signage.

If there’s no seating (and there usually isn’t), order at the bar and take your burger and cocktail or craft beer out to the courtyard to see whatever live entertainment is on schedule for the night. Cariocas aren’t known for getting places on time, so it’s saying something that Comuna is consistently filled to the brim only an hour after it opens.

Rua Sorocaba, 585, Botafogo. 6 p.m.-1 a.m. Sun and Tue-Thur; 6 p.m.-2 a.m. Fri, Sat.

Photo: Courtesy of Eduardo Magalhaes.

Cafecito

The first time I went to the hillside neighbourhood of Santa Teresa, I went on foot; I knew the climb would be steep, but it’s hard to tell from a map just how steep. The answer, in this case, is very, which is why I was so pleased to find my way to Cafecito at the end of the gruelling hike. The space is split between a more casual café at the lower level and a full-service restaurant up top, with an eclectic menu that mixes Brazilian and Argentine cuisine. But whatever meal you’re having, do grab a table on the terrace so you can make the most of the scene.

Even by Rio standards, service here can be slow, but considering you’re sitting in a historic house with views overlooking all of Rio, why complain about the extra wait? If you’ve had one too many caipirinhas, just be careful about navigating Santa Teresa’s steep, cobblestone streets. Fortunately the way back down is much easier than the way up.

Rua Paschoal Carlos Magno, 121, Santa Teresa. 9 a.m.-midnight daily.

Photo: Courtesy of Cafecito Santa Teresa.

Junta Local

When traveling, I prefer to prioritise eating over sightseeing, which is why I always try to track down a city’s local organic-gourmet food fair. For Rio de Janeiro, you’ll want to visit Junta Local. You can find anything and everything there, from local produce to vegan ice cream to Colombian arepas to fresh falafel to homemade jams to Aperol spritzes — a welcome change, considering Rio’s food scene can be a bit monotonous after you’ve had your fill of feijoada and churrasco.

Though food is the main event, while you’re chowing down you can also listen to live music and browse clothing and used books, all part of Junta Local’s goal to bring the community together. Events take place at least once a month at plazas and open spaces throughout the city, ranging from Zona Norte to Zonal Sul. Check Junta Local’s site or Facebook page for details on the next feira.

Photo: Courtesy of Samuel Antonini.

Olho da Rua

Perhaps I’m getting old, but finding somewhere cool to go out at night can be exhausting; sometimes I just can’t be bothered to try to get on the right list or figure out how to get to some secret club at the end of the earth. The cultural centre Olho da Rua doesn’t make you jump through any of those hoops; it does, however, have film screenings, photography expositions, samba nights, and live-art installations.

The two-for-one specials on beer, caipirinhas, and pizzas help cure any late-night cravings. And though the venue closes at midnight (relatively early for Rio), you’re close to plenty of late-night watering holes if you want to keep the party going. Just wander over to nearby ruas Voluntários da Pátria or Nelson Mandela to find a boteco to grab a beer. Then again, if you’re old like me (a.k.a. no longer in college), going to bed at midnight doesn’t sound so bad.

Rua Bambina, 6, Botafogo. 5 p.m.-midnight, Tue-Sat.

Photo: Courtesy of Olho da Rua.

Posto 12

Some people go to the beach to go swimming or play volleyball, but my preferred sport is people-watching. Most tourists flock to the beaches of Copacabana and Ipanema, which have their charms, but I prefer Posto 12 at the far end of Leblon. It’s at the very edge of Zona Sul, which means it’s slightly more secluded than neighbouring beaches (emphasis on slightly — if you want true seclusion, you’ll have to get out of Rio). Some believe it’s where Rio’s most beautiful people choose to sunbathe. It’s also opposite upscale Hotel Marina, where said beautiful people (allegedly) go to have affairs. As the sun starts to go down, make your way up to the Mirante Do Leblon, where you can sip on caipirinhas and take in the views of Ipanema and Leblon on one side and nearby favela Vidigal on the other.

Avenida Delfim Moreira, Leblon.

Photo: Courtesy of Emily Jensen.

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